Confidence can mean a lot of different things. It can start from ”the walk”, ”the dress”, ”the attitude”, your whole personality.
Those who are not brave, but did it anyway, received the power:
- to attract beautiful and confident people in their lives.
- to influence and help others.
After you are doing the things that stretch you more and more every day, this beautiful power comes just naturally, like a fulfilling prophecy.
I can say for myself that I am not the most confident person so that others could learn how to act and behave more confidently.
It’s enjoyable going to networking events. I go directly to the speakers or who are playing in the ‘’big league’’ and sometimes they totally ignore me.
When giving small speeches, the starting sentences are not perfect and sometimes words come out from my mouth the wrong way.
Furthermore, I love experimenting with new things trough traveling and fitness. Because I like getting the knowledge in different fields and put it into action.
How can you get more confidence in yourself?
Well, I said that I am not the most confident person who can teach others how to act and behave more confidently. Instead, I can show others how to be confident for themselves.
You see, all of these things like ”the walk”, ”the dress”, ”the attitude” is nothing if you do it for others. Or if you force it just to get as fast as possible to your desires. Remember, power comes naturally, but forcing things will take you exactly where you did not want to end up…alone.
First, you need to be aware of your thinking and of your goals in life.
Why starting with awareness?
You should have that open mind (trained mindset) that in life everything is possible. Furthermore, everything can happen when you try to go out and connect in ‘’the jungle’’. We are living in our own reality and with our own expectation. We aren’t aware that each of us is living in our own kind of little world with our own kind of expectations.
If we are not able to be aware of how the world works and that everything is possible, we will be very disappointed with ourselves. No matter how confident we act or dress up.
It’s simple: awareness is knowledge and knowledge gives you automatically confidence in yourself.
Second, you will have to show up and be present.
Now that you are aware that everything is possible, your next step is to experiment with this awareness.
Observe what happens actually if you DO something and not just KNOW something. This is already confidence within yourself. Just showing up, be there and make small moves. Even if the results are not what you expected them to be.
Remember how I wrote that I am going to networking events and go directly to the speakers? Or who are playing in the ‘’big league’’ and sometimes they totally ignore me? Or when I give small speeches I start them how I did not want and say not exactly what I meant to say?
The keyword what shows that I have confidence within me is: ‘’enjoying’’
I ENJOY doing those things because as I am doing it more often and consistently, the results aren’t bad anymore. It keeps going better and better. This leads to the third step. How can you build confidence?
By picturing and acting as you are already there where you want to be
Visualization is a powerful tool. Even Napoleon Hill is writing about it in his book ‘’Think and grow rich’’. But it not just helps you to get what you desire, or to get rich. It also gives you the confidence within yourself to be consistent even if the results are not as you expected, or you got ignored or told NO 100 times.
Because you know what? I do not hope, or I do not wish that for the 101 times you get a YES, I am SURE of it. I know it. There is no other option just to have that knowledge so that from consistency you get double, triple your whole self-growth.
If you truly considering digging deeper and see how to get from having ”-1 confidence” to having the confidence behind your confidence: here is what you need to know about how to improve your self-confidence and boost your inner game.